To Become Like Him

Why does the Lord take away so much and ask us to love Him anyway?

September 8-14

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We read about many stories in the scriptures where someone is a type of Christ. We seek to be a type of Christ. We seek to pattern our lives after Him. There is a verse in Doctrine and Covenants that puts forth a similar idea.

Doctrine and Covenants 101:4 Therefore, they must needs be chastened and tried, even as Abraham, who was commanded to offer up his only son. 

In the story of Abraham and Isaac, Isaac is a type of Christ who was willing to follow his father’s will. And though we often speak of people being a type of Christ, it’s interesting to me how Abraham was able to be a type of Heavenly Father. He was willing to sacrifice his son if that’s what was required.

The Saints in Missouri at this time were driven out of their homes and were camped out on the river in the cold. Approximately 200 of their homes had been burned down, and many had lost all. They had not been asked to sacrifice their son, but they had been asked to sacrifice something they had longed for – a safe home. 

Why would the Lord ask His people to sacrifice these things? Why would He ask Abraham to sacrifice his son? Why would He allow the Saints to be tried in this manner? As the Saints continue to flee persecution in this time period, many will lose more than homes. 

Why does the Lord take away so much and ask us to love Him anyway?

Let’s explore it.

We are meant to be more than a type of Christ. We are meant to be more than a type of Heavenly Father. We are meant to become like Them. We are meant to inherit what They have. We are meant to inherit Their characteristics, who They are. 

Our Heavenly Parents cannot allow us to inherit all that They have without us being prepared to act responsibly.

The Lord allowed the Saints to be expelled from Missouri because they were not spiritually prepared to build up Zion, and they would not become spiritually prepared by remaining there. Zion would have been forever lost if the Lord allowed anyone to live there just as heaven would be lost if He was not willing to make the necessary judgment calls. In order to preserve Zion, in order to preserve heaven, the Savior had to be willing to make the difficult decision.

Why does He ask us to sacrifice so much? Because we have to be like Him; we have to be prepared to make difficult decisions. We have to be tried to the extent that we are willing to sacrifice as Abraham was willing to sacrifice. If we are not prepared to live like Him and if He chose to allow us to inherit all that He has anyway, we would destroy heaven when we couldn’t make the difficult decisions that He has to make. When we have to watch our own children experiencing mortality, will we be strong enough to allow them to struggle and strive in order to become all they’re capable of becoming? Will we love them enough to let them suffer if it is the only means by which they can eventually reach a full happiness? If not, the Lord has to be willing to withhold some of His blessings in the next life. He has to be willing to sacrifice all that He had in mind for us if we are not prepared to receive it.

Despite His willingness to make those decisions, make no mistake; it was difficult for the Lord to watch His Saints on the bank of that river. It hurts Him to watch us suffer.

Doctrine and Covenants 101:9 Verily I say unto you, notwithstanding their sins, my bowels are filled with compassion towards them. I will not utterly cast them off; and in the day of wrath I will remember my mercy. 

He loves us. He, more than anyone, loves us. And this is precisely why He requires so much sacrifice of us. 

Going back to the original verse in this post, we read that the Saints have to be chastened and tried even as Abraham. The word “chasten” means to correct or to discipline. We’ve heard that definition many times. I was interested to learn that “chasten” also means to “have a restraining or moderating effect on.” It implies the idea of subduing intense feelings. This definition makes a lot of sense when I think of Heavenly Father having to sacrifice His Beloved Son. He had to subdue His intense love for His Son on behalf of the rest of us; there was no other way. And then He also needed to not hate the rest of mankind for requiring such a sacrifice. 

That’s what we have to become. We have to be willing to sacrifice and continue to love those around us because that’s what our Heavenly Father is. That’s what our Savior is. It is the only kind of Being that can truly live an eternally joyful life. 

To recap, our Heavenly Father loves us dearly. We are His children. He was willing to sacrifice His Son on our behalf, and He was willing to love the rest of mankind that required that sacrifice. It was the only way He could save us. He was willing to watch His Saints sit on the river banks in the dead of winter for their own behalf. It was the only way He could save us. He had to subdue His intense feelings of love in order to help us reach the greatest good. More accurately, He had to subdue the intense desire to shield us because He loves us. 

If we want to receive all that He has, we have to hold those same characteristics. The only way we can gain those kinds of characteristics is in real-life practice. And so the Lord allows us to be chastened and tried even as Abraham, and we get to see whether we’re willing to endure chastening and still love Him afterwards. We cannot learn the importance of these lessons unless we live them. 

I testify of a Lord and Savior who loves us so much that He is willing to subdue His strong inclinations to protect us in order to help us become all that we are capable of becoming. I testify that all that we suffer can one day contribute to the glory He intends to give. I testify that loving Him for what He gives and loving Him for what He chooses to take away can bring the greatest peace, happiness, and joy.

2 thoughts on “To Become Like Him

  1. Thank you for this inspiring message. I totally agree with you on the Missouri Saints who were driven out, lost their homes, farms, herds, some of their loved ones and much more. Was it really the Saints that the Lord was asking to make a sacrifice though or was it the Lord making the sacrifice?

    They weren’t ready to receive what the Lord truly wanted to bless them with — a City of Zion and they suffered great loss, but didn’t the Lord suffer a greater loss? He and His Father were prevented from bestowing great blessings upon those early Saints because as you said “they were not spiritually prepared to build up Zion, and they would not become spiritually prepared by remaining there. Zion would have been forever lost if the Lord allowed anyone to live there just as heaven would be lost”. Did the Lord allow them to be expelled, or did they force the Lord to withhold his blessings and privileges (see D&C 9:5) because they weren’t worthy to receive it. They would have been unclean and dwelling with God, which can’t happen!! I don’t think it is much of a stretch to think this caused our Savior and His Father to weep much!

    I also loved your thoughts about Abraham and the necessity that each of us are tried as he was. Long before he was asked to sacrifice this son Isaac, Abraham proved faithful in much smaller sacrifices. Rather than joining the wicked culture while he lived in Chaldea, he was a righteous man and believing there was “greater happiness and peace and rest for me, I sought for the blessings of the fathers……… and desiring to receive instuctions, and to keep the commandments of God, I became a rightful heir…….. holding the right belonging to the fathers”. (part of Abraham 1:2). In chapter 2 he is asked to leave Ur and go to Canaan and then on to Egypt. Abraham showed the Lord that he could be faithful in small things enough that the Lord was able to trust he would be faithful in great things.

    Alma 13:4 explains this process quite well, Abraham and the Saints in Missouri were called to holy callings, but the Saints suffered from hardness of heart and blindness of mind and if it had not been for this they might have had as great privilege as their brethren. (Abraham). Verse 5 goes back to your message from last week. The Savior started in the same place, with a veil over His mind. He was faithful to the light and knowledge He acquired by His diligence and faithfulness.

    This has really caused me much self-reflection. How am I acting that invites or causes the Lord to withhold blessings He is already inclined to grant me?

    This was truly exceptional. Thank you for blessing me again.

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    • Wow. Full circle. Though I feel like the Lord does that over and over and over. I’ll have the Spirit whisper to me Friday night, and it will all come together on Sunday between my blog and Relief Society lesson. I’m so grateful for what you added here and how you tied them together even more closely.

      I know how the Lord feels sometimes. It has surprised me just how forcefully it affects me when I have to withhold something from my kids. My brother and I fought really bad when we were kids but have gotten close as we’re older (typical, I know). I’ve watched my older two do the same thing, and it makes me so sad because they could be so close! They could enjoy so much more than I did at their age. It’s really not fun to watch. Drives me nuts haha

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