Building the Kingdom in Diapers and Day Jobs

May everything we do be in the name of the Lord.

September 29-October 5

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The Saints have built the Kirtland temple. This week we read about the dedication event, including the revealed prayer from the Lord, and we read about the Lord restoring priesthood keys within the temple. Here is one of the verses from the prayer that was revealed to Joseph Smith.

Doctrine and Covenants 109:9 That your incomings may be in the name of the Lord, that your outgoings may be in the name of the Lord, that all your salutations may be in the name of the Lord, with uplifted hand unto the Most High– 

This verse is talking about temple worship. When you come into the temple, your heart should be turned towards the Lord. When you leave the temple, that state of heart should follow you into the world. During temple worship, all of your salutations (or, in other words, your interpersonal communications) should reflect the Lord and His holiness. 

There is a lot of power in focusing on Christ in the temple. Temple worship reflects the antiquity of the gospel, and it can feel very different than how we normally worship. When we use every part of the temple to reflect on Christ and look at every symbol through a lens of Christ, the worship experience becomes more meaningful.

However, I want to take this beyond the walls of the temple. 

When I was a teenager, I remember attending EFY camps, fireside, Sunday youth classes, and all sorts of youth activities. Oftentimes, we would be invited to spend more time with the Savior. Being the perfectionist that I was, I often took this goal beyond what my leaders had likely intended. I would make goals about reading my scriptures, praying, and doing other spiritual activities that went beyond the bounds of what was balanced or even appropriate. 

As an adult, I recall the Spirit whispering a very important truth to me. Spending time with the Savior is not just about going and doing traditionally spiritual things; it’s also about inviting the Savior into the rest of your life. Our incomings, outgoings, and salutations can be in the name of the Lord regardless of whether they are directly about the Lord.

Rather than constantly immersing myself in scripture study, I can take my learning to a new level as I bring Christ into the rest of my life. This has many outcomes, but let’s talk about a couple of them.

The first effect is that it transforms my life.

I can listen to secular music, read my favorite romance novels, go out to dinner with my husband, and hang out with my girl friends with the Savior as my companion. I remember driving to go buy a dress for a Christmas party. The sun was shining, and my Apple Playlist was giving me all of the best songs. The Spirit whispered to me that I should remember Christ, and I did. I thanked Him for moments like that, and it made it all the sweeter. I knew He was happy for me and that He was enjoying my happiness and gratitude.

Eternal life isn’t all work. I don’t know what the Savior does for fun, but I believe that fun is an important part of a healthy and balanced spiritual life. The Savior wants to be included in those moments too.

As a stay-at-home mom, my life can also get a bit repetitive meeting the needs of my kids. Helping the kids with their tasks that I’m trying to teach, making bottles, changing diapers, wiping the counter, picking up things so that I don’t trip over it, and refereeing can take its toll sometimes. The daily tasks can feel so mundane sometimes until you place them in the context of eternity. But then I bring the Savior into it. Eternity isn’t about learning some huge new lesson every few weeks. It’s not about giant, transformational experiences. It’s about daily habits that make us who we are.

When I invite the Savior to walk with me in my experience, it reminds me that I’m building discipleship into the rapidly developing brains of my children. Showing up for them over and over and over and over and over sets the stage for them to understand their Savior. He gives power and purpose to the mundane parts of my life. And though I speak of my personal experience as a stay-at-home mom, these principles extend beyond that. You can find power and purpose in the mundane parts of your life.

So we’re working on letting our incomings, outgoings, and salutations be in the name of the Lord. The first effect is that it transforms our lives. It makes sweet moments sweeter. It fills the mundane parts of life with purpose. And I didn’t talk about it, but it also soothes the hard moments.

The second effect is that it makes your work more powerful.

When you do something in the name of the Lord, it adds power. Acting in His name means that we are standing in for Him as if He were here. We are His representative. We are doing what He would do in our situation. Christ left His carpentry job to be a full-time missionary for 3 years, but that’s not our mission. He made premortal promises, and He fulfilled them. We also made premortal promises, but ours are not the same as His. 

You don’t abandon your day job. You transform your day job. It’s “Bring the Savior to work day.” This has a couple of outcomes. 

It quickens your ability to do your job. I watch my husband receive revelation all the time in his engineering designs. I pray all the time for his inspiration. The Saints were building the Kirtland temple, and I’m sure they learned a lot of spiritual lessons. They also developed some major construction skills. Maybe that doesn’t seem like an important skill until you realize that the Lord is preparing us to create like He did. Invite Him to join you, and do all things in His name. It can add purpose, and it can make you more capable.

When you do your day job in the name of the Lord, you also find ways to build the kingdom in creative ways. Sometimes we think building the kingdom means we go to church and do our calling, but building the kingdom can happen everywhere around you. Can you imagine how quickly our ability to build the kingdom would collapse if all the farmers left their jobs to be full-time missionaries? Jobs that are not traditionally thought of as spiritual can be done in the name of the Lord, and they can help build the kingdom. 

Let all your salutations, incomings, and outgoings be done in the name of the Lord. That doesn’t mean you immediately need to preach to your coworker. It can also mean finding purpose, power, and fulfillment in the work that you are a part of. It doesn’t mean abandoning your day job to knock doors; it means bringing the Savior with you everywhere you go.

I testify that doing so transforms your life and your work. The Savior is the best companion on this unofficial mission we’ve been called to do. He knows the importance of daily tasks and can help us remember how our small contributions matter. He knows how to have fun. He finds great joy in your joy. He can expand your capacities and help you creatively utilize them for good.

4 thoughts on “Building the Kingdom in Diapers and Day Jobs

  1. September 29-October 5 – Just wrote a long email and lost it during submission. That may be lucky for you because it was looong. I had expressed my appreciation in the past for the beautiful way your conveyed content that was deeply personal to me and helped me put into words how I felt about gospel related thoughts and actions. Others hand out endless information about themselves and the topics they address. I do not find these satisfying and rarely even take a short note. With your thoughts I start taking notes and give up and print out the text for many of your presentations. As with this week, I related to those who think I need to study the scriptures more, but I spend a lot of time doing things that make me happy and fill me with the Spirit. It is easy to feel a little pressure to do things the way we are “expected” to do them. You do for me what I can’t seem to do for myself, explain that what I am doing or feeling about incorporating the gospel into my life is ok. I feel badly that so few benefit from your videos. Maybe they expect you to be like all the others or they can’t relate to your beautiful insights into life. Well, anyway you have blessed my life with clarity in so many ways. Perhaps you are a kindred spirit. All I know is I get more understanding about my life from you than any other person online. You go to a lot of trouble for a modest number of viewers, but you have obviously determined that it is not the number of viewers but the number of lives you enhance that is important. If I had one tiny dislike it is that you need to spend a bit more time looking into the camera 🙂 It is a little distracting to have your eyes darting around. That said, thank you for clarifying why I do things I do in trying to come unto Christ.

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    • What a kind comment. I’m so grateful you took the time to type something again when you lost the last one and can’t help but wish I could have read your looong one haha it helps to know that it’s helping. It really helps in my moments of discouragement even though for the most part, the Lord has helped me reach the point where I really am happy knowing that it’s blessing however many lives He sends it to. I used to struggle with that. I used to feel like I wasn’t contributing much, but now I’m just grateful God is letting me come along for the ride. I have learned so much and if no one ever reads my stuff again, I will still be grateful. God has changed me, and in turn, it will change my children. That alone makes all the sacrifices worth it.

      If you feel like I’ve helped you consciously express how you feel about the gospel, make sure to thank the Lord. I wish everyone could experience what I’ve experienced. It really isn’t me, and that isn’t modesty. Just truth. It is the most distinct feeling when God is guiding me and when I’m trying to do it by myself. They’re His words filtered through me.

      Hah I don’t like it when my eyes dart around either! Perhaps that’s why I don’t let myself watch my own videos. It drives me nuts, and I would lose the resolve to post it. I’ll try to keep it in mind. I still get just a tiny bit self-conscious trying to teach, and I think it reflects in my body language. I would probably be more confident if I had more time to do the filming and preparing, but I’m stretched thin as it is. Someday, when my kids are a bit older, perhaps I’ll be able to publish something a bit more professional. Until then, I will do my best to think of your words and try to do better.

      I’m glad you stopped to comment, and I have met more than one kindred spirit doing this.

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  2. Good evening once again,

    Incomings, outgoings, salutations and inviting the Lord to workday! I love that idea.

    Decades ago, we celebrated an annual “bring your child to work” day. I was able to let my children see what their dad did during a typical workday. An extension was bringing Christ to work with me every day.

    I retired 1 year ago this week after 30 years at the same job. As I have mentioned before, I was an electrician. Our group consisted of electricians, HVAC, plumbers, and general carpenters/tradesmen. The stereotype of foul-mouthed construction workers was definitely true where I worked. A particular co-worker’s desk (for starting and ending the day) was next to mine & I quickly established a cussing jar and tried to charge him a quarter for every profane word he spoke. One day he put a $5 bill in the jar and said he was paying in advance!! Anyway, the point is that most of my co-workers knew about and respected by religious nature. The dirty jokes and cussing generally went way down when I was around. I am very thankful, I didn’t adopt their bad habits, and my good habits had a positive influence on them.

    My occupation allowed me to work with light every day. I installed new lights, restored light that had gone out and much more. There are many gospel analogies here. One is lumens per watt. This is the ratio of electrical inputs to light (lumen) output. Some older technologies were pretty poor at it. One of the reasons LEDs are so popular today is they have a very high lumen per watt ratio. Not that long ago, my personal light output was pretty low. Christ and His Church, put a lot of energy into me and at times got only a pittance in return. I am thankful to be much better at it as the years have gone by.

    Another is dimmers. We had hundreds of them all over the place from small 600 watt dimmers up to 1000’s of watts. The fallen world we live in is constantly trying to dim the light around us, with the goal of leaving us completely in the dark. It can happen so slowly that we often don’t notice or care, we can still see pretty well, often until it is too late!! The Savior wants to turn the light up, sometimes we allow that to happen pretty slowly as well. Thankfully, He never stops trying to add more light into our lives.

    I definitely agree with the other commenter to this post, and I have mentioned it more than once. Finding you those many years ago was a tremendous blessing. Thank you for all your time and effort that has richly blessed my life.

    Your friend,

    Danny

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    • Oh how I wish you could get to know my husband haha light is one of his favorite titles for Christ. He’s a bit of a nerd, and so he gets into super deep information about the physics of light that I don’t understand. Even though I don’t know what he’s talking about with the visible light spectrum (only catchy phrase I remember), I’m glad he learns about Christ because of it haha. Thank you for the additional insights and layers to add upon that.

      And good on you for having a cursing jar! That’s hilarious.

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