
June 8-14
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At the beginning of chapter 8, we find Samuel getting older. He made his sons judges, and they were corrupt. The people went to Samuel and asked for a king. Samuel didn’t like that much, and he turned to the Lord. Here is the Lord’s response.
1 Samuel 8:7 And the Lord said unto Samuel, Hearken unto the voice of the people in all that they say unto thee: for they have not rejected thee, but they have rejected me, that I should not reign over them.
The people wanted a monarchy instead of a theocracy. They wanted to be like other nations despite the warnings that Samuel gave them. He warned them of all the problems that come with a king, but they insisted.
We’re not in the same situation as the Israelites. None of us are asking President Oaks to give us a king, but there are still lessons for us here. Let’s look at some details.
Israel wanted a king; they wanted someone who would rule over them. The irony here is that if you had asked Samuel whether the Israelites had a king, he would have answered, “Yes.” The Lord was meant to be their king. The Lord had a mouthpiece, a messenger for how He wanted His kingdom ruled, but He was meant to rule over His own people.
So when the Lord says that the Israelites rejected Him, He is accurate. They had a king, but they wanted a different kind of king.
There are a lot of parallels we could find in our own lives. Rather than explicitly stating the parallel, I rather just give one potential manifestation of this parallel.
The Lord has come before each of us and promised to bless us. He wants to make us kings and queens, priests and priestesses. He wants to make us like Him. He wants to shower us with warmth and promises. He wants to open our eyes and show us everything. There is so much to be had as heirs of God.
All of that sounds pretty wonderful. Unfortunately, these things don’t just get bestowed upon us. We have to grow into it.
So when we are faced with the decision of opening our scripture app or social media, we often find ourselves on social media.
The Lord comes and says, “Let me be your king. I won’t ever betray you. I won’t take from you; I only want to give. I want to show you all that you can become.” The Lord comes and warns us, “Taking a different king can be dangerous. The king will take your children, and it will take the best parts of what you have. It only serves itself; you will be its servant.”
And yet, like the Israelites, we insist on choosing social media. We choose a different king. We choose a king that robs us of moments with our loved ones. We choose a king that does have the power to take our children away from us. We choose a king that is only looking to profit itself, and we make ourselves slaves to it.
Why?? Why do we do this??
And it’s interesting. The Lord doesn’t mind if we have a mortal king. In Mosiah 29, Mosiah tells his people that it would be fine to have a king if they could guarantee that their kings were righteous. The Lord doesn’t mind if we have social media, TV, video games, or any other of these other banal activities. The Lord can utilize these tools to enhance our life and make it better.
The problem comes when we essentially reject the Lord for something pathetic. If you had asked the Israelites if they were rejecting their God, I wonder what they would have said. Maybe they would have told us, “We’re not rejecting our God. We will still follow our God. We just want a king too. Having a king doesn’t mean that we don’t worship God.” If you ask us if we’re rejecting God when we pull open something vapid instead of something inspiring, we would probably answer that we’re not rejecting God.
Perhaps that’s true. Perhaps you’re not outright rejecting God.
But have you ever tried to connect with someone who was too busy on their phone? Have you ever gone to someone for help only for them to be too distracted to love you? Have you ever done this to someone else?
Perhaps you’re not turning to that person who is seeking a connection with you and saying, “Stop. I don’t like you. Go away. I hate you.” But aren’t you still rejecting them? Don’t you feel rejected when it happens to you?
So we can tell ourselves all we like that opening instagram instead of the scriptures isn’t rejecting God, but isn’t it? He’s trying to connect with us. He’s trying to draw us higher, and we turn away. That is rejection too.
I’m not describing a world where we become monks that don’t take part in any other type of material. Social media isn’t evil. I just think it’s wise to take inventory of who is ruling us. Our phones often do this cool thing where it keeps track of where we’re spending our time. Look at your phone. Where did you spend your time today?
And as a sidenote, this isn’t a message about social media. I’m sharing an example that shows an overarching principle. What is ruling us? Is it God?
As I was reading about the Israelites choosing a king, I thought of all the pain that was coming to them. I thought of everything we would read about Israel and the trials that were coming. If they could have seen what was coming, would they have chosen differently?
If we could see what our kings would bring us, would we choose differently?
The Lord has warned us about how to spend our time. He has warned us about what to invite in and what to leave be. Who is your king? What is your king taking from you or giving to you?
I testify that there are many good things to enjoy in life, but only one King who is willing to give rather than take. I testify that the Lord knows what He is talking about in how He directs our lives. I testify that you don’t have to verbally reject the Lord to be cutting Him out of your life, and that being careful of what we choose will bless us in the long run. It may seem easier to choose something else, but it’s not.
I loved your thoughts about worshiping false kings and the result of following them. Yes, we should read our scriptures, and modern prophets have asked us to read the Book of Mormon every day.
Since I am retired, I have lots of time to read, and watch Hallmark type movies with my mother, who lives with me and serve in my callings. Here are my current reading choices, besides the Book of Mormon, which I read after I wake up to get my day started off right.
The May and June Liahona
The Old Testament Student Manual – Religion 301
The Infinite Atonement by Tad R Callister
The Teachings of Spencer W Kimball
What a dilemma!! I probably still spend too much time on social media. I also get those weekly reports on how much time I spend on my phone. This past alert said I was on it 48 minutes more than last week. I use it for so many activities, including sending funny and inspiring clips that I find or get sent to me by other friends on FB messenger.
Yes, there are many good things in life AND I am very thankful that you are one of them. Keep the office open! 😉
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Hah I think you are doing quite well! I read a page from The Book of Mormon and then prepare these messages. I’ve wanted to check out The Infinite Atonement, but my day will come when I can study other resources. I’m lucky to even get my messages prepped. There are so many resources from the church, and sometimes I felt guilty if I wasn’t utilizing them all. Luckily, I learned that the Lord was just trying to give us plenty of options to bring Him into our lives. I don’t have to read everything in order to learn the gospel.
I also use my phone a ton. One of the best things I ever did for my life was to lock myself out of social media. I didn’t want to spurn it, but I didn’t want to lose myself in it. I gave myself an appropriate amount of time, and then I had my husband put a passcode on it so that I couldn’t unlock more time for myself. Now my phone has become a tremendous tool rather than hinderance. I definitely still get distracted with other things, but it’s so much better now!
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You have mentioned it before — the challenge of getting around to reading other books, etc. Every choice we make eliminates others, brings blessings and denies a few others. What matters is being happy with what you are doing. You have said more than once this feels like a calling from on High and I have benefitted greatly from reading your inspiring messages for many years. Thank you for blessing me with all your “distractions”!!
You also have me so share a few tidbits in my replies and what I am reading these days. I loved what I read recently in The Infinite Atonement — the Atonement was infinite going forward and also backwards all the way to our premortal life. Modern day prophets have taught what we progressed there until it was time for our 2nd estate. Progress inherently means mistakes and mistakes require repentance. Alma taught that as premortal spirits we were left to choose good or evil, with some choosing good by “exercising exceeding great faith.” (Alma 13:3) Cain is another example. He was perdition from “before the world.” (Moses 5:24). As wicked as he was, he didn’t follow Lucifer and wasn’t cast out with all the others. The Atonement makes repentance possible in that life too. (The Infinite Atonement p76-77)
I really like your approach to social media. Not totally spurning but keeping solid guardrails. I am not far away from that approach myself.
Have a great week.
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That is a fascinating thought, that it extended before here. It makes perfect sense to me. I’ve also absently wondered if we have more earth-like tests after this and whether reincarnation was just an apostasy-version of that concept. Obviously, that is completely a random thought with no doctrinal basis whatsoever. It’s just crossed my mind how many experiences we will need to go through to progress to be like Him.
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What a beautiful and fascinating thought…that it extends to before we even came here. I wonder how far it will have to extend through the next life as we work to progress through other experiences that teach us.
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